Jesus Prayer – He Prayed. How Do You?

May 16th, 2010

Prayer is a powerful path to heaven. Since Jesus prayed, He can be a model. Here is an excerpt from my book, “52 Paths To Heaven.”

Prayer

IF MY PEOPLE WHO ARE CALLED BY MY NAME HUMBLE THEMSELVES AND PRAY AND SEEK MY FACE AND TURN FROM THEIR WICKED WAYS, THEN I WILL HEAR FROM HEAVEN, WILL FORGIVE THEIR SIN AND WILL HEAL THEIR LAND.

2 Chronicles 7:13-14

I’ve heard people suggest that God doesn’t hear the prayers of unbelievers. I think that’s a bunch of bunk.

Of course He hears their prayers. God is omnipotent and omnipresent. He knows everything. He’s everywhere.

He may respond to believers and unbelievers differently, but it’s impossible for Him to tune out any prayers.

As much as God hates sin, I’m fascinated by the fact that He hangs out with sinners to get their attention. The Holy Spirit is the one who keeps working on us and eventually breaks through when we relent.

It’s a mystery how the Holy Spirit manages to be in our midst when we’re not Christians. Clearly, He has to be with us the moment we surrender our lives to Jesus Christ. In my case, He was there all along in the 34 years it took for me to submit my will to the Lord’s.

Prayer can be an effective, common path an unbeliever travels. As was my case, many people talk to God without any regard for Jesus. They just assume they love of God. But God can’t love them back if they sin. It’s through our relationship with Jesus – and how His sacrifice removes the penalty of sin – that gives us access to God in the first place.

Sin, of course, separates us from God. Again, He hears the prayers. But we’re not in the right relationship with God. A single sin can make us ineligible for heaven. Jesus didn’t just die for all of our sins and we’re home free. We have to receive His sacrifice as a gift. We do that in no other way than owning up to our sins, turning from them, thanking Him and becoming His follower. Too many people bypass those steps and just run to God. Jesus simply doesn’t rate.

If Jesus means a lot to you, how does He know?

Non-Christians’ prayers, however, help them stay in tune with the notion and the presence of God. I have no doubt that He’ll work with those prayers in some way. He may not answer them directly, but the prayers could help the Holy Spirit make critical moves to help them discover Jesus.

Prayers aren’t about kneeling (although that’s a tremendous posture I sometimes neglect). It’s not about raising hands to heaven. It’s not about crying. All of those movements and reactions can happen.

Prayer is about honesty, communication and sincerity of heart. We should be less concerned about the answers we receive and more focused on the privilege we have to access God’s throne. Bible scholars remind us that prayer isn’t for God; it’s for us. It’s how we stay connected to Him and show our utter dependence on Him. Put Him on the spot.

I recommend that unbelievers tell God that they don’t understand Him, don’t know how they’re supposed to accept His gift of salvation, and that they’re eager to hear from Him.

For what it’s worth, maybe they’ll also pray for loved ones, soldiers in a futile war, abused children, politicians, jobs, and good health. Only God knows what He’ll do with those words.

I’ve gone so far as to tell unbelievers that they should yell at God – if that’s what it takes.

Maybe something in life confuses them. Maybe they’re angry with God about the way the world goes – con artists who trick people into giving up their money, natural disasters, etc. Maybe one of their parents simply dies in a traffic accident.

“I hate you God!” may not be the most reverent words ever spoken, but I think they could qualify as a prayer from an angry, desperate man or woman who doesn’t know where else to turn. Unfortunately, they lack His peace and comfort and grace to endure life’s trials.

It takes a leap of faith to stop what you’re doing and call out to the Almighty Lord:

“I don’t know you. I’m not sure you exist, considering the horrible things you apparently don’t care about in this world. But I want to know you. I want to understand. Help me to see what you want me to see about Jesus. Help me distinguish Him and His purpose apart from you. Spare me eternal punishment in hell.”

Yes, God can hear that prayer. And I imagine He’ll move more swiftly with those words than when He hears someone say: “Give me a bigger paycheck.”
God isn’t a vending machine.  You can do better from your heart, much better. It’s not that hard.

Prayer Life: Spiritually Strong or Spiritual Wimp?

May 16th, 2010

Prayer life confession: I don’t pray as much as I should.

How much did you pray yesterday? How much did I pray yesterday?

I started off this morning with some prayer – and need to look for more opportunities as the day progresses.

God commands me to pray.

My pastor, Rick Duncan once preached in 2008, “If you don’t pray, you’re a spiritual wimp.”

Ouch.

He’s a good guy – and clearly he mentioned that during a whole teaching on Luke 11 – “Prayer that Prevails.” He reminded the congregation that prayer is our primary weapon. “If you’re not praying, you’re not breathing spiritually,” he said.

So true.

How do we connect with God if we don’t pray?

I came across this Marlene LeFever PDF that outlines ways to prayer – it’s a list of 25. But it’s really not about ways; it’s about discipline and acting like who I’m called to be as a follower of Jesus.

25 Ways to Experience God

It’s time for me to pray – often. How about you?

What Are Your Top Goals As A Christian?

May 8th, 2010

I participate and complete studies with other Christian men and then sigh: “I can’t operate at that level.”

The topics we cover and the teachings accumulate and I begin to wonder how much of a change a guy can really make.

After I suppress my whining and negativity, I put what I read and experience into perspective. They’re goals, not rigid performance grades.

Looking toward being a better follower of Jesus gives me something fresh to think about and to aspire to in some capacity.

My goal is to be a street evangelist, but it’s been a long, long time since I approached a total stranger.

What kind of Christian do you hope to be as you grow in your walk with Christ?

As a model, look at the words of John Wesley, a famed evangelist and founder of Methodism:

“Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as you ever can.”

Lofty?

Not really.

It’s about setting the bar kind of high so you can look up.

I once heard that God isn’t looking so much for our ability as He is our availability.

Lord, please help me make myself available to you and sort out the pressures and priorities of my life.

Good People Go To Hell

April 18th, 2010

If you could score it, I’d say many sensitive, socially concerned unbelievers do a lot more good on this earth than some Christians.

Unfortunately, good people go to hell.

Like me, do you wonder how nice people manage to care for the world without knowing Jesus and living in the power of the Holy Spirit?

I lose sight of the answer at times.

God isn’t going to zap an unbeliever who is about to lend a hand or start a great cause.

I’m learning to remember that goodness or righteousness should reflect a love of God, acknowledge that He’s at work in us and that He should be getting the glory.

When a caring person helps someone in need (i.e. pays for their groceries at a store), how can the giver’s heart align with the Lord’s if there isn’t a connection in the first place? How can he or she be grateful that God provided the opportunity to be His hands and His feet?

For my part, I’m just grateful that God allows me to be good. And sometimes I remember to reflect on what He’s allowed me to do.

If I’m good, God gets the credit. Positive things he accomplishes in me constantly clash with my sins.

John Piper, a noted Christian leader and author, goes a little deeper with this. He acknowledges that nice deeds by unbelievers reflect what God teaches us in Scripture. But the relationship with God is the missing part.

In one of his teachings, “Total Depravity,” Piper explains it this way:

“It is not done out of reliance on him or for his glory. He is not trusted for the resources, though he gives them all. Nor is his honor exalted, even though that’s his will in all things (1 Corinthians 10:31). Therefore even these ‘good’ acts are part of our rebellion and are not ‘good’ in the sense that really counts in the end—in relation to God.”

I think about a lot of verses – and put my life in perspective. In John 15, Jesus says we can’t really do anything without Him (I figure He’s talking about anything of His will that has merit or is rooted in love).

In Luke 18:19, Jesus tells the rich young ruler: “No one is good – except God alone.”

Travis Carden, a Christian, compiled the “Total Depravity Verse List.”

It’s not easy reading, but it’s the truth. Look at the references to sinners, disobedience, schemers, evil, wickedness, envy, deceit, pride, foolishness and many more.

Humanity benefits from unbelievers and Christians alike. I just need to remember more often that God should be the one who gets the credit.

When A Storm Comes – and It Will – Jesus Stands in the Middle with an Outstretched Hand

April 9th, 2010

A few months back, as I struggled to balance work, career changes and family, I caught a vision of me being a carefree stick just floating down a raging river.

Although a stick could smack against a rock here and there, it usually just floats and made its way – carried by the water.

I sought that peace amid pressures and uncertainity.

Today, the calm waters appear more often. But I think God wants me to trust in His grace no matter what’s happening. He’ll carry me, see me through.

Sometimes in faith, and sometimes just for a reprieve, I think about the strength I can find in Jesus. A great illustration of that is an uplifting Bryan Duncan song, “Strollin’ on the Water.” It’s about that invitation – to let go, step into the deep and enjoy the company of Jesus – regardless of the conditions.

In the lyrics, Jesus says:

“…Take a breath of fresh air
Feel the mist on your toes
Look where we are!”

All around me, people I know lack jobs, cope with mental illness, lose faith in their marriages, and despair over grueling circumstances. One friend’s father has one of the worst forms of cancer.

I don’t know how any of them could cope without Jesus.

Although I don’t check in with Jesus as much as I should, I find myself thinking about him, admiring him, loving Him.

And when things do get rough – when I’m in over my head and feel like I can’t even breathe – I rush toward Him. He’s not hard to find. He’s the awesome guy who even commands the seas:

“Then he got to his feet and rebuked the wind and the waters and there was a great calm. The men were filled with astonishment and kept saying, ‘Whatever sort of man is this – why, even the wind and the waves do what he tells them!’ ”
- Matthew 8:23-27

When do you reach for His hand?

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Do You Turn a Blind Eye to Sin Like Me?

April 5th, 2010

It’s kind of disturbing to think about how much I sin each day - what I think about, say, do, don’t do, etc.

I wish sin just meant things like stealing, killing, using the Lord’s name in vain. How often do we think of sin as the times we don’t pray, read the Bible, or serve?

For years I’ve been encouraged by a Steve Green song called “I Repent.”

The lyrics cover sin in a sweeping way: “… I regret the hours I have wasted and the pleasures I have tasted that you were never in.”

How often do you sin and think about your sins? Confess them? Turn away from them?

Before his song, Green offers a personal reflection on Sparrow Records’ “Listen to Our Hearts Volume 2″ CD. He discusses how he came to terms with the huge gap between a perfect Lord and the wretchedness of his sin.  Green shares that he realized his attention shouldn’t be on all of the sins he needs to avoid. Instead, he decided to focus on Jesus to deal with those sins. “What I really need is a renewed love of Christ. The effect of that renewed love is the driving away of false affections and wrong desires.”

I grow weary of trying to conquer my sins. I’m glad the Holy Spirit helps me be mindful of them. But I want to find myself adopting Green’s attitude – to love Jesus more fully, to lean on Him and to learn from Him.

How do you regard sin? How are you coping?

Like me, do you fail to own up to your sins? Do you also struggle with them in your own strength rather than fall deeper in love with Jesus?

Time for Personal Revival

April 3rd, 2010

I took a long break from a lot of things, including the book website and blog.

I’m back at it – with many topics in hand.

For the most part, I’ll avoid sharing stuff you see all over your email. On the rare occasion I do, it’s just because the item means a great deal to me or I think it’s not the common video or text you’ve seen.

This one may be familiar. It’s dramatic, inspiring. It’s “Sunday’s Comin.”

God’s Creations Deserve Dignity Even When They Can’t Sing Like Susan Boyle

April 23rd, 2009

“God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.”
- Genesis 1:27

Shame on me for doing a double take when I saw the extraordinary Susan Boyle who performed on Britain’s Got Talent TV show.

By now, you’ve seen the video.

Her instant fame gave me pause about my initial reaction and how we regard or write off some people.

For a second, I thought she might be a man because of her appearance – the face, hairstyle and the bushy eyebrows. And then I thought she might just be another self-deceived, undiscovered “talent” who would simply elicit laughter. Instead, the judges and the audience stopped giggling and offered applause (most honored her with a standing ovation).

I wonder how we feel about unusual or unsightly people. Do we turn away and just ignore them? Do we figure they will merely stay home or hold jobs out of public view?

Society is full of rejects, crippled people and human beings of all ages with deformities we wouldn’t wish on anyone.

The Susan Boyles of the world remind me of the Hermey the Misfit Elf in “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer.” He simply aspired to be a dentist rather than a toymaker.

Unemployed and not married at 47, Susan Boyle just wanted a chance to sing. I can’t imagine the ridicule she has faced over her lifetime. TV’s Larry King asked Susan if she was going to do anything about her appearance. Since he’s a media personality, I couldn’t blame him. People do wonder. Susan told him she has no plans to change.

Sometimes people do alter their looks, just like Elliott Yamin of American Idol fame did with his teeth.

When we see someone with a defect, we’d like to think we don’t jeer. But if we’re honest, we did judge Susan Boyle.

Hopefully most of the time we’re busy helping the blind, mentally retarded, deaf, etc.

What if the cashier has an ugly growth – maybe even a tumor hanging off their face? Will we wait longer in a different checkout aisle? You may have heard of neurofibromatosis, better known as Elephant Man disease.

We all matter to God:

“You wove me in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”
- Psalm 139:13-14

Every person deserves their dignity – even the ones who can’t sing but somehow believe they’re destined for stardom. I’m glad Susan got her moment; I’d buy a ticket in a heartbeat. Her moxie and confidence stand out as well (I loved it when she wiggled her hips).

We’re all imperfect in one sense of another – spiritually and physically. I’m sometimes ill-tempered and I have a deformed right ankle that works fine even though it’s considerably larger than the norm.

On the spiritual side, my sins have been forgiven by Jesus who hung on a cross for me 2,000 years ago. And while I too often neglect Him and His power, I know Him and turn to Him.

As for this body of mine, it’s just temporary. Someday I’ll be in heaven – maybe even with Susan. Together, we can sing in perfect harmony.

Hockey Crowds in Church – a Young Boy’s Perspective

April 16th, 2009

It must be tough for a toddler to distinguish one crowd from another.

I got a kick out my friend’s 2-year-old son who went to church in Cleveland Sunday. He figured it would be just like the last crowd he was around – inside a pro hockey arena in Detroit.

He was thrilled to see so many people. “Hockey! Hockey!” he yelled.

Maybe he didn’t realize the players wouldn’t be racing about. But he picked up on the joy. Everyone came out for a great occasion – to worship the King.

No ice, skates, or protective gear. He just needed wonderment and innocence – enough to make Jesus smile.

Matthew 19:14

Jesus, however, said, “Let the little children come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heaven belongs to people like these.”

Jesus doesn’t require much from the rest of us – just hearts open enough to receive what He has for us … as we invite Him to transform our lives.

Am I a Terrorist? Are You? Do You Take Stands?

April 15th, 2009

I always figured I’d end up in prison for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Or, I’d get picked up for going into a rage if someone tried to hurt my wife or sons.

But maybe I’ll get arrested for being a violent extremist. After all, I oppose lax immigration policies and abortion laws that allow pieces of tiny kids to be tossed in the garbage.

But my stands on issues is the essence of a new report by some bureaucrats who lack some common sense.

Get a load of it here in the Washington Times:

“The report sent to law enforcement … lists veterans as a terrorist risk to the U.S. and defines ‘rightwing extremism’ as including groups opposed to abortion and immigration.”

http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2009/apr/16/napolitano-stands-rightwing-extremism

http://video1.washingtontimes.com/video/extremismreport.pdf

No, I’m not being arrested today. But the government is quick to label me a potential Christian extremist (read: terrorist) if I seem razor-focused on a cause.

I guess I’m in the clear because I hold firm beliefs about lots of things, not one. That’s a relief.

Besides my views on immigrants (I say kick out the illegals who don’t know how to honor the law), I think we:
- Need better gun control laws (for homeowners and gang members alike)
- Should eliminate the U.S. Department of Education
- Should drill for oil in lots of places on land and in the ocean
- Shouldn’t cave into owl lovers or tree huggers
- Should let homosexuals have a bigger voice with their loved ones (like with medical decisions) but stop short of granting them marriages (God kind of had the man/woman thing in mind)

So do those beliefs – and countless others – align me with extremist groups? I would think not.

Will I get in trouble for bashing the government? I hope not.

I love my country – even when it’s off its rocker.

How about you?